Category: Thoughtful - Platonism

How to make a relationship healthy?

12/31/2016

It is totally normal that everyone gets married thinking that life will be happy but not everyone find it happy till the last day of their life. The problem with the current generation is seeing everything as a business and goals. This will never go hand in hand with the relationship in long term. Relationship goals and relationship as a goal are different. It is something between the two and nothing to do with the external world, but it is difficult to maintain the happiness throughout. I put down my top 15 ingredients of a healthy relationship.

1. Give enough personal space, do not take everything granted
Just because you're in a relationship, this doesn't mean that you need to share everything and be together always and also do not hide if something is important. Crossing the limits will make your partner think as an annoyance, maybe not on a day one but this will happen one day. A good relationship needs some private space. A good relationship will allow each other to enjoy with their friends. Do not bug your partner to share the facebook password.

How, What, Why to write in 'My personal diary'? Personal diary writing - Methodology

12/31/2015

A diary can be your very best listening and loyal friend. I think it is a right time to post this, as many people will take resolution to start writing a personal diary. Keeping and writing a diary is one of the most important things in my life. I am the biggest fan of writing my diary. Diary writing is considered to be a very personal form of writing. Even though the people all over the world prefers to use blogs and other digital formats to write Diary, however the conventional style of writing in a paper diary is still a popular form of expression of one’s thoughts and feelings. It gives me pleasure and feel, when I write in paper with my own hands, because whenever I write with my hands, I will think and feel the each words I write. I started writing two times earlier but failed to continue, but now I am doing it every day for the last three years, 2016 is my 4th year of my journey.The only reason is, I like to write. I share my opinion here on how to start/write diary. whatever I mention below are my opinion only.

Diwali - the sad story!

11/10/2015

People say Diwali is a festival of lights, But in reality it is a festival of sounds, For animals and birds, it is a festival of torture.

What do you discuss?

8/4/2015

Great minds discuss idea. Average minds discuss events. Small minds discuss people. - Eleanor Roosevelt

Whether a male or female, both spends a considerable minutes of time in discussions with their friends, colleagues, family members etc, But how healthy & useful are those discussions to their intellectual life. Most of our day to day discussions can be categorized within the topic idea, events and people. If you find yourself falling under the category of events or people, You need to worry, Redirect your discussion to a level better than what you have now, Because useless discussions are not a way towards your journey success.

How to be a nice person?

8/2/2015

You may feel I am so silly to write this, But there are many occasions in my life where people asked me how am I maintaining a cordial relationship with everyone. People told me many times that, they have never seen me angry for anything. I feel privileged at times to think about this. Kindly note I ain't boasting. My mantra is very simple and they are...

We are Leaves

7/17/2015

Have you even gone on a walk on a good day and picked up a fresh green leaf. Well I have done so! Honestly if you just walk outside a pick up a leaf that would work just the same. Whenever I pick a fresh leaf on the ground, I usually tear it apart and sprinkle it on the air. Even today when i was sitting on the bench in my garden one fresh leaf fell on my thighs , as usual i was about to tear it apart and sparge it up, but before doing that i was stopped by something not by my instinct. Then I observed the leaf intimately and my mind started to wander and divagated.

And What I observed was..

Life is a competition or a challenge ? How about yours ?

6/5/2015

I don’t recall what has touched off the thought, but over this annual year break I had a little insight into the vital difference between a challenge and a competition of life.

Either God or Nature is creating us. Nature and God never fails to remind us every second that We are the unique and most successful right from you killed 20 million other sperms before you are formed and till date. Among the 7.2 Billion people, everyone of us is unique and everyone of us have at least one difference with one another. Then what is the purpose of competing with others? because, Everyone has their own unique track for their destination. The truth is none of us have to succumb to the spirit of competition. There is no competition with one another but only challenge with our journey.

Fear and power of loneliness

6/3/2015

I often gets the impression that many of us are afraid of being lonely and not willing to keep our environment silent. We can easily notice people tend to take in - text, music, TV, or even thoughts to fulfill the space. We always complain we do not enough time to have a peaceful life, we work so hard and earn more.

World's ugliest women turns beautiful, converts bullies into love - Lizzie Velásquez may inspire you

5/21/2015

Lizzie Velásquez, an American woman who has an extremely rare medical anomaly preventing her from gaining weight. She has 0% body fat, never weighed more than 29 Kilograms and also she is having impaired eyesight.(my small urge, please be informed of using gratifying dulcet worlds like physically challenged, visually challenged/impaired, hearing impaired, medical anomaly than using handicapped, deaf, blind, etc... It doesn't looks sense on calling so, only because we are in majority). I strongly believe her extreme rare medical condition has led her to become an author and motivational speaker. On contrary, I would not have even thought her to become the same when is she is like us.

Clock and Time

5/17/2015

"Don't watch the clock, do what it does. Keep going." - Sam Levenson, American Humorist.

'Tick, Tick, Tick..' the sound that usually awaken many memories from the people. The sound you may feel less important, but at times it is important in many ways. This is because you can rewind the hands of the clock, but not the time gone. The time once flown will seldom comes to your hand.

Keep Smiling :)

5/14/2015

"Let us always meet each other with a smile, for the smile is the beginning of the love." - Mother Teresa.

Many of us, would have come across this and having bitter experience when meeting a serious guy at first sight, thinking why these kinda people are still alive. It doesn't a matter how big or important you are, It will take days or months to change the opinion one set.

Which one should I pick among money, intellect, & love ?

5/14/2015

Which one should I pick among money, intellect, & love ?

This question may be simple but accountable. If you are asked to pick one of these 3 for your entire life, which one will you choose ?

To make this question more simple, How would you like to called ? to be called as intellectual person, or rich person, or kind person.

It is very difficult for a common man to choose, because all these 3 are needed at some part of our life time. Here I'm not including the minority ascetic people in consideration but only a laypeople.

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